Psychological health

To the Person Who Loves Me Next

“So it won’t be easy. It’s going to be really hard; we’re going to have to work at this every day, but I want to do it because I want you. I want all of you, forever, every day. You and me…every day.” – Nicholas Sparks

For the person who loves me then, you must know a few things about me and how I am when it comes to loving someone.

Who are you and where have you been. I look forward to meeting you. But you should know, I don’t care about many things in life…love is involved.

So when you love me, I’m the kind of person who loves me deeply.

So when you love me, I will love you deeply.

So when you love me, I will only love you.

Because unlike most… I know how to love the right way. And when I do I will change your life, if you are able to reciprocate.

But before we get there, please know a few things…

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To the one who loves me then

So it won’t be easy…

I don’t know if I am an easy-to-love person, because I appreciate love in its entirety.

I am very guarded. I don’t trust a lot of people. I know it has nothing to do with you. It is more about people in the past, who have left. I know I shouldn’t judge you based on people in the past. But I loved a lot and learned.

I love people the right way. But, not many people know how to do this or know how to respond to people who love them deeply like me.

I love so badly. even worse heartbreakthat won’t change.

It’s going to be really hard; We have to work on it.

I will test you. I’ll see if you deserve even the love I can give. You can test me too.

To love the right way requires loving in equal measure. I’ve loved so many people who can’t reciprocate. But the pain is fine. To suffer means that I am taking the appropriate opportunities for something I want. But I am willing to work for the relationship that we both deserve. I know that love can be the best thing we have in life. I am willing to take chances. I am willing to risk getting hurt, in the hope that you will love me again.

But I want to do it…

I am not afraid of pain. I’ll give you my best. I will love you the right way.

Love is a kind of gambling and I will be the first to admit that I love playing the game. But I promise I will play the right game. I will never play you. I will not take your feelings into account. I would never intentionally harm you. I am a shooter in a world full of liars. Of the many things I’m good at, the one I like the best.

Because I want you. I want all of you.”

I want you. I want us to make it. I want to test the relationships they write about. I’ve been there once. I know what it takes to get there. It requires faith in each other. It’s a bit of a risk. It’s kind of weak. It’s kind of letting go of your guard and blindly trusting someone. Letting someone know about the past is what hurts you.

I will tell you about the scars that prevailed in the past. I will tell you about the wounds. I’ll tell you about the things that went wrong. And when I trust you enough to tell you these things, you will love me even more because you bore them.

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