Psychological health

To The Girl Who Always Ends It Before It Even Begins

She always ends it before she starts…

She wants to date and explore new guys but afraid of commitment. You probably don’t want to be tied down even if he’s the guy you like to talk to and spend time with.

Unlike other girls who get ecstatic seeing their crushes approaching them and interacting with love and affection, you find it strange that this guy says sweet things. Instead of feeling special, her investigation mode is activated.

She tries to think carefully about why this man is so extraordinarily interested in her, the purpose of the extraordinary attention and charming interaction that her male friends usually do not do with her almost every day. She is not excited about dates, parties, gifts, and late-night conversations.

Because of trust issues, she believes there is a deep meaning in every gesture and action. You try to read things a lot. During the analysis, she tries to rule out the possibility that the man is in love with her or that he has some malicious intent.

It’s hard to get a little too close too fast. Because she still reassures himself – it’s okay, he just cares, that’s it or he’s friendly with everyone.

No, she is not rude or cruel. She does all this just to feel safe and secure.

Why does a girl always finish it before she starts?

Because this is her defense mechanism to stop being hurt again.

She was a naive and playful young girl with a positive view of love and life. Then she fell in love with a man who made her feel like she was nothing but a princess in a fairy tale. And then one day he broke her trust and she lost faith in the phrase “I will never break your heart” forever.

So, if she ends relationships before they even start, it’s clearly not her fault.

It’s hard to trust when all you have from the past is proof that you shouldn’t.

He played with her feelings and emotions and now she is suspicious of everyone she meets. Fear of another heartbreak leads to anxiety and stimulates negative thinking.

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She closed the doors of her heart so that no one else would come into her life, without even thinking that this person could be the love of her life.

Tired of all the mind games, she built those invisible walls around herself for protection. Unable to heal her wounds and scars, she fails to believe anything a man might say to her.

After the terrible end of the last few relationships, she had no legitimate relationship with anyone.

The trust of the innocent is the most useful tool for lying – Stephen King

Once you crush confidence you can never be perfect again.

But now it is too late before the girl realizes the sincerity of this man who could be the potential partner. Blinded by her fears, she could not open herself up. If only she did, she would have realized the possibility that the men she loves might love her too.

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If she hadn’t succumbed to those fears and insecurities, she would have realized her value. And I thought she deserved to be a real lover. Anyone can love her to the moon and back. Someone who will not break his promises or hurt her but strives to the utmost for her happiness.

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Unfortunately, past heartbreak has left her so shattered that no one can love her deeply and choose to live with her forever.

You think she is not worthy of true love. Because of that man, who caused the stabbing pain long ago.

Or maybe it’s her safety net – she thinks this way until her mind stops thinking or expecting a happy love life from anyone else.

But then she regrets her decision!

There is no doubt that she is happy with her loved ones and close friends who love and support her during her periods of prosperity and sorrow.

But she beats her up for her trust issues, not letting anyone get close to her, not giving a chance, missing the chance to find out that guy’s true intentions, or losing a good friendship with that guy.

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She then laments the situation, over and over again, thinking about whether the man loves her and what if he wants to marry her. She also thinks to herself what if she was too cowardly to take the initiative or too selfish to text him first and then again and again.

Whatever the reason, you spoiled a wonderful moment and there’s no point in crying over spilled milk. The vicious circle of thoughts in her mind never ends and never comes out of her hard shell.

But, then, she is devastated and falls into a massive depression when a guy falls in love with another girl.

This is not his fault after all.

How long can he wait?

After a few such losses, she mustered the courage to defend herself. She decided to take risks and feel things she had never felt before. She is ready to accept and enjoy all journeys.

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Although she still has doubts and fears, she is ready for the good and bad days of the love journey. Now she doesn’t want to end things before they start.

But after all this, I realized once again that it was too late to finally give him a chance.

This is how you always finish before you start.

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