Do you know who is manipulative, liar and abusive? Manipulatives and sociopaths like to pressure and control others. Unless you learn to recognize the signs of a manipulator, you will fall victim to his exploitation and doubt yourself.
The thing about manipulators, liars, and drug users
Psychopaths, sociopaths, and narcissists aren’t always serial killers or crazy tyrants. Most of the time, they look just like you and me. They can be abusive, watchful, pathological liars, and expert manipulators, yet they may seem like the most charming, caring, and affectionate person you will ever encounter. But behind this pathetic but sentimental mask lies a vicious predator.
Yes, she can be very sexy and incredibly charming. Her natural allure may blind you because she is focusing all her attention and energy on you. But only when you feel like the most important person in the world; when you begin to be drawn to their deceptive charms; When you start getting attached to their toxic passion, that’s exactly when they’ll strike. You won’t even realize it. It will start in the most accurate way. But when their mask begins to slip and their reality begins to unfold, you will begin to realize how terrifying, controlling and threatening they really are. The more time you spend with them, the slower you will begin to recognize the signs of a manipulator. But you won’t let yourself believe it because you’re still blind to their magic. Or you may have walked too deep into the narcissist’s trap.
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Victim rescue game
They have manipulated you now to get attached to them. Even though you always feel annoyed when you are with them, you will be searching hard for their company. They will possess every aspect of your life, and eventually you will begin to lose your sense of self-worth and self-esteem. You will become increasingly insecure and lack self-esteem, making you their puppet.
Even though you may realize that they are a sociopathic narcissist, you will continue to justify their behavior. Even when you recognize the signs of a manipulator within them, you will accept their unacceptable behavior. why? Because you will believe that you can help them change. You will believe that you can cure their narcissism. You’ll think you can make them a better person. Believing that your love will soothe their pain and turn a savage beast into a charming prince, you mistakenly believe that it really is, you will begin to rescue them from their pain.
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As you embark on your epic journey of love and transformation, you will plunge into the abyss of abuse, lies and manipulation. Sociopaths thrive on compassion, compassion, and empathy. They will use your sympathy to get things their way. Not only will they force you to justify their mistreatment, they will make you doubt yourself and feel sorry for them. Now you will fail to notice the signs of being manipulated. You will break all healthy boundaries that protect yourself and your rights. And you’ll honestly believe that their toxic and abusive behavior is meant to help you be a better person. This is what pathological liars do. They make you believe that this is how they show you their true love for you. But all this is nothing but their scheme to manipulate you into their supply to feed their fragile ego and weak self-esteem.
Lying and deception game
Sociopaths will make you think that you are the only one for them. Abuse is a form of their intense passion for you. Socially manipulative predators can say and do anything to stop you from realizing and letting go of the truth. They will destroy your sense of self and brutally destroy your self-worth. But you have to realize that you cannot save them. They are not victims. They are not tortured. They are not in pain. You are. You need to save yourself first and foremost.
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